Any advice for an aspiring domme?

soft-hearted-mistress:

My number one tip to you and any aspiring Domme I ever meet is this: 

   Don’t doubt yourself. No matter who you are, what you look like, what your physical/mental capabilities, your gender, your age (+18), your disabilities, your sexual orientation, etc… None of that matters. What makes a good Domme is not your physical capabilities and attributes, but your mental strength and heart to train and nurture simultaneously. Don’t ever let yourself get caught up in the stereotypes more widely portrayed in media and in porn. Because although those images are completely valid and acceptable, they aren’t realistic for most honest, everyday Dommes. Just be yourself, always treat your sub(s) with love and respect, and never stop learning. I hope this helps, love ❤️ ~M