Unpopular femdom opinion


I think that trope of a domme having her sub go down on her while she looks completely disinterested or is distracting herself with something else is trash. 

If I’m a sub, my primary desire is in making my domme feel good. If I’m going down on her I want to have an orgasm or at least enjoy herself. If I see my domme (or really any partner) looking disinterested or not enjoying themselves during I’m going to want to stop and talk to them. Ask if their enjoying it or if not could I be doing anything differently to make things better. 

Perhaps there is something I’m missing but I don’t want someone who’s going to dominate me but be bored while doing so. I want a woman who dominates me because she likes to do so as much as I like to submit to her.

Enjoyment in my partner is a turn on. Boredom is a turn off.


“Aww, are you whimpering already back there, honey?”

“Yes, princess. Your feel amazing.”

“Thank you, hon. Is my ass making you want to cum?”

“Yes, princess. It looks so sexy and perfect.”

“Are you going to cum?”

“No, princess. I’m really trying not to.”

“That’s good, baby. Just try to remember what we talked about.”

“Yes, princess. I won’t cum. Not anymore.”

“At all, baby?”

“At all, princess.”

“And why’s that?”

“It makes you happy that I stay hard and horny and ready for you to use, princess.”

“And what else?”

“That I – oh god…”

“Hold it in, baby.”

“Y-yes, princess.”

“Now what else did we talk about?”

“That we will train me, princess.”

“Train you to do what?”

“To not cum, princess.”

“No, the other thing, baby.”

“To- to make me forget orgasms.”

“That’s right, baby, edges are your new orgasms. You have to forget orgasms exist for you.”

“Yes, princess.”

“Say it, baby.”

“I- princess, edges are my new orgasms. I have to be trained to forget orgasms exist for me, princess.”

“That’s a good boy! And what are we doing now, baby?”

“We’re training me to forget orgasms exist for me, princess.”

“Good boy! I’m going to pick up the pace here just a bit, and I’m going to cum on your cock, and I’m going to cum for both of us.”

“Yes, princess. Thank you, princess.”