I think that trope of a domme having her sub go down on her while she looks completely disinterested or is distracting herself with something else is trash.
If I’m a sub, my primary desire is in making my domme feel good. If I’m going down on her I want to have an orgasm or at least enjoy herself. If I see my domme (or really any partner) looking disinterested or not enjoying themselves during I’m going to want to stop and talk to them. Ask if their enjoying it or if not could I be doing anything differently to make things better.
Perhaps there is something I’m missing but I don’t want someone who’s going to dominate me but be bored while doing so. I want a woman who dominates me because she likes to do so as much as I like to submit to her.
Enjoyment in my partner is a turn on. Boredom is a turn off.
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