A lot of the femdom and gentle femdom stuff I see on here contains a lot of couples/people in committed romantic or bdsm relationships. As an inexperienced domme not looking for any relationships atm, what’s the best way I can introduce femdom or at least elements of femdom to casual sex partners?

soft-hearted-mistress:

(((18+ ADVICE)))

 You definitely don’t have to be in a committed relationship in order to enjoy elements of a D/s lifestyle. I think my number one tip would be to just be upfront about your dominance when you choose a partner (temporary or permanent). Let them know that you would like to take charge. Then based off their reaction you can decide whether to continue or not. You just have to find partners who are comfortable being submissive in nature. Other than that, I think it would be fairly simple to introduce elements of femdom into your casual sexual partners. Just be open with them and maybe keep a few “tools” on hand for more options in case you do make it that far. Even just some good quality rope or bondage restraints could be a great starter. Then when you start getting intimate, you have more to play with. Ask them if they’ve ever been dominated before. If they haven’t, ask if they’d like to try. Then if they say yes, give them your rules for the scene, set a safe word and get to work tying them up (add a blindfold if either party is feeling too shy or self-conscious. This is my personal favorite tip. It seems that when you cut off one person’s sight, it allows both to be more open to what’s happening without judgment.) Then just have your fun. I hope this is helpful ❤️ Good luck! ~M

Thanks for the great advice!