Tag: ask a domme

Do you enjoy hummilating your sub? If so how do you prefer to humilate them?

I’m personality not too much into humiliation, although I wouldn’t mind doing it if a sub specifically requested it. The furthest I’d usually go is sexual objectification, referring to them as my sex slave or slut. I’m more about positive reinforcement, pampering them telling them they’re a good boy or a good slave. I like to see and treat my partners, whether they are submissive or not, as equal and not lesser than me, both inside and outside the bedroom, even though we may play with a domme/sub dynamic.

Thanks for the ask 😊

Young switch man here if that counts. What do you think would be the longest time you’d forbid a sub to orgasm?

I personally don’t like taking bdsm play outside the bedroom, so the longest I would deny a sub would be the duration of the session/scene, or however long I have them for ;P. I still love watching guys cum, and edging and denial just makes that final release even more satisfying for both of us, so I would never make a guy leave without cumming.

Thanks for the ask! 🙂 

What do you enjoy most doing to a sub?

Apologies for the late reply; I haven’t really had the time recently to properly manage my blog. But thanks for the asks!

I haven’t had that much experience domming yet (where art thou, young submissive men!), but I absolutely love edging, or any other form of orgasm control. The way they squirm and moan, the way their breath quickens and their legs shake… Whether I’m top, bottom, or domme, we both know that I am still in control of their pleasure, so I please them, over and over again, tormenting them with pleasure until they are begging and breathless, but never allowing release unless I command it. And few things are more satisfying to either of us than when I finally allow them to cum. The sheer intensity of their pleasure in that moment – their thick cum gushing out of their throbbing cock, as they gasp and moan – is a reward for their performance, and almost equally orgasmic for me to experience with them. 

Any advice for an aspiring domme?

soft-hearted-mistress:

My number one tip to you and any aspiring Domme I ever meet is this: 

   Don’t doubt yourself. No matter who you are, what you look like, what your physical/mental capabilities, your gender, your age (+18), your disabilities, your sexual orientation, etc… None of that matters. What makes a good Domme is not your physical capabilities and attributes, but your mental strength and heart to train and nurture simultaneously. Don’t ever let yourself get caught up in the stereotypes more widely portrayed in media and in porn. Because although those images are completely valid and acceptable, they aren’t realistic for most honest, everyday Dommes. Just be yourself, always treat your sub(s) with love and respect, and never stop learning. I hope this helps, love ❤️ ~M