serveyourneeds:

lavenderbutts:

As soon as you walk through that door, your clothes come off boy, and with them your mask comes off too, the mask you wear everyday at work and that makes everyone believe you’re a strong, dominant man.

As soon as you walk through that door you’re mine, my precious boy, my little slut, my toy to use however I want, my little servant who will do anything to please me, my caged, denied little pet.

How does it feel to walk around all day hiding it, without anyone knowing what you really are? It must be exhausting, sweet boy.

It’s okay now, you can stop pretending. I’m here and I’ll take control of you.

On your knees, pet.

This writing speaks to me in ways I cannot even describe.

I often walk through the day feeling like I am hiding an important part of myself. I try to find ways to let the submissive side of me show. Finding ways to please and help others for example.

But no matter what I do, I am not fully me. It’s only those moments when I can physically shed my clothes and metaphorically shed the societal pressure and judgment and be open with the person I will serve that I am fully me, and more importantly fully hers. Thank you @lavenderbutts for beautifully capturing those feelings

Do you enjoy hummilating your sub? If so how do you prefer to humilate them?

I’m personality not too much into humiliation, although I wouldn’t mind doing it if a sub specifically requested it. The furthest I’d usually go is sexual objectification, referring to them as my sex slave or slut. I’m more about positive reinforcement, pampering them telling them they’re a good boy or a good slave. I like to see and treat my partners, whether they are submissive or not, as equal and not lesser than me, both inside and outside the bedroom, even though we may play with a domme/sub dynamic.

Thanks for the ask 😊

What do you enjoy most doing to a sub?

Apologies for the late reply; I haven’t really had the time recently to properly manage my blog. But thanks for the asks!

I haven’t had that much experience domming yet (where art thou, young submissive men!), but I absolutely love edging, or any other form of orgasm control. The way they squirm and moan, the way their breath quickens and their legs shake… Whether I’m top, bottom, or domme, we both know that I am still in control of their pleasure, so I please them, over and over again, tormenting them with pleasure until they are begging and breathless, but never allowing release unless I command it. And few things are more satisfying to either of us than when I finally allow them to cum. The sheer intensity of their pleasure in that moment – their thick cum gushing out of their throbbing cock, as they gasp and moan – is a reward for their performance, and almost equally orgasmic for me to experience with them.Â