newbtolube:

newbtolube:

I really like the idea of…how do I put this, ordered orgasm denial?

Like, having a Domme tell a sub they’re not allowed to cum, but then teasing and edging them until they’re about to break. To the point that the sub has to beg “Please Mistress, don’t make me cum”, they have to go against everything their body is telling them because they want to be good and obey.
And then the Domme can be like “Well, you’re the one who asked me to stop. I would have kept going. Apparently you just don’t want to cum.” Rinse repeat until the sub breaks.

I dunno, I love the idea of subs being ordered to behave in a way that goes against their own pleasure/desires/self/preservation. Like yes please order me to do something that frustrates the hell out of me.

Unf.

I’m very surprised at how many notes this has gotten.

queenofquelling:

Being a Domme is natural, it can be acted, but will not last. True colors emerge and the shoes, boots and sexy attire off!

Being a Domme is confidence in who you are as a woman and you live it in spite of all the harm this world has done to you. Its an attitude of truth and love and acceptance and understanding…

TRUST!

Being a Domme allows a man to become who he is created to be under delicate discipline driving who he is to the very core of his existence, not what society tells him he should be…It’s more of a personal choice in the on going connection, it’s give and take, just as every relationship under the sun is…

Being a Domme means her mind has been stimulated by him to the point of no return in regards to taking her man to places he’s never been…

©D~