Tag: s&m

In your opinion is there such a thing as a dominant bottom? I am a domme/possibly switch with both sadistic and masochistic tendencies, and still like being on the receiving end of rough sex/manhandling while still remaining in control. However there seems to be some controversy amongst online bdsm communities whether or not ‘topping from the bottom’ is legitimate.

soft-hearted-mistress:

   Topping from the bottom is absolutely legitimate and a valid form of Domming. There’s no reason in the world why you shouldn’t be able to explore both sides of your nature at the same time, and this seems like the best way to do it in my opinion. I actually consider myself active in this type of play. I’m prominently a Domme to my sub, but I still have that side of me that wants to be topped. It’s always been a part of me and I don’t feel it’s fair to have to completely dismiss it in order to be a Domme. In my eyes it’s not about who’s on the bottom; It’s all about who’s holding the leash 💋 ~M

Confessions of a sadomasochistic domme/switch

I love rough sex, and I still love being ravaged by a man:

Being manhandled, my breasts grabbed, feeling their strong hands around my throat, having my hair pulled and my ass spanked red, being fucked senseless into the bed, having my perfect pussy and ass pounded until I scream…

But ultimately they do this for me because I demand it of them. Because I want it; I enjoy it. I control my pleasure, and I also control theirs. They do not cum unless I tell them to. Because they are mine to use as I please. And I use them to their fullest extent, until we are both spent, sweaty, and satisfied.