Tag: sex

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 2. Your 5 favorite spots to be stimulated.

1. Clitoris – obviously, that’s a no-brainer

2. Vagina/g-spot – I’m lucky I’m one of the women who does greatly enjoy and can cum from vaginal stimulation. It’s also fun seeing my subs/partners struggle to contain themselves when they’re buried deep within me. 

3. Ass/anus – I find that anal stimulation greatly increases my enjoyment of sex when done in conjunction with other things, as even though I cannot orgasm through anal stimulation alone, it just adds to and enhances all the other sensations.

4. Neck – who doesn’t love being kissed and caressed on their neck? And even though I’m a domme, I also enjoy light choking/breathplay, and biting/scratching. There’s something extremely erotic about trusting and allowing your partner access to such a sensitive and delicate spot.

5. Breasts/nipples – I do quite enjoy the pressure and sensations of having my breasts fondled and squeezed, and also the reaction it gets from my partners. Nipple play is also quite fun, despite the fact I have inverted nipples and only one can pop out, but I make do. 

How much experience as sub do you have and how would you estimate your dom/sub ratio?

I haven’t yet had any proper experiences as a sub, although with vanilla partners, wherein neither of us are dom(me) or sub, I tend to bottom, although this may be simply be because I am quite petite, pretty unfit, and a sometimes a little bit lazy – it’s always easier to let the guy do the heavy lifting 😂. I do like to be physically ‘dominated’ and manhandled, and love being on both the giving and receiving ends of rough, primal sex, but beyond that, I’m not naturally particularly submissive at all. This is why I identify as a dominant bottom. I would be willing to try it with the right partner, however. 

So I would estimate by domme/sub ratio to be probably ~ 80:20. My top/bottom ration would be closer to ~ 40:60. Thanks for the ask 😊

Do you enjoy hummilating your sub? If so how do you prefer to humilate them?

I’m personality not too much into humiliation, although I wouldn’t mind doing it if a sub specifically requested it. The furthest I’d usually go is sexual objectification, referring to them as my sex slave or slut. I’m more about positive reinforcement, pampering them telling them they’re a good boy or a good slave. I like to see and treat my partners, whether they are submissive or not, as equal and not lesser than me, both inside and outside the bedroom, even though we may play with a domme/sub dynamic.

Thanks for the ask 😊

Young switch man here if that counts. What do you think would be the longest time you’d forbid a sub to orgasm?

I personally don’t like taking bdsm play outside the bedroom, so the longest I would deny a sub would be the duration of the session/scene, or however long I have them for ;P. I still love watching guys cum, and edging and denial just makes that final release even more satisfying for both of us, so I would never make a guy leave without cumming.

Thanks for the ask! 🙂