Tag: sadomasochism

newbtolube:

newbtolube:

I really like the idea of…how do I put this, ordered orgasm denial?

Like, having a Domme tell a sub they’re not allowed to cum, but then teasing and edging them until they’re about to break. To the point that the sub has to beg “Please Mistress, don’t make me cum”, they have to go against everything their body is telling them because they want to be good and obey.
And then the Domme can be like “Well, you’re the one who asked me to stop. I would have kept going. Apparently you just don’t want to cum.” Rinse repeat until the sub breaks.

I dunno, I love the idea of subs being ordered to behave in a way that goes against their own pleasure/desires/self/preservation. Like yes please order me to do something that frustrates the hell out of me.

Unf.

I’m very surprised at how many notes this has gotten.

In your opinion is there such a thing as a dominant bottom? I am a domme/possibly switch with both sadistic and masochistic tendencies, and still like being on the receiving end of rough sex/manhandling while still remaining in control. However there seems to be some controversy amongst online bdsm communities whether or not ‘topping from the bottom’ is legitimate.

soft-hearted-mistress:

   Topping from the bottom is absolutely legitimate and a valid form of Domming. There’s no reason in the world why you shouldn’t be able to explore both sides of your nature at the same time, and this seems like the best way to do it in my opinion. I actually consider myself active in this type of play. I’m prominently a Domme to my sub, but I still have that side of me that wants to be topped. It’s always been a part of me and I don’t feel it’s fair to have to completely dismiss it in order to be a Domme. In my eyes it’s not about who’s on the bottom; It’s all about who’s holding the leash 💋 ~M

Confessions of a sadomasochistic domme/switch

I love rough sex, and I still love being ravaged by a man:

Being manhandled, my breasts grabbed, feeling their strong hands around my throat, having my hair pulled and my ass spanked red, being fucked senseless into the bed, having my perfect pussy and ass pounded until I scream…

But ultimately they do this for me because I demand it of them. Because I want it; I enjoy it. I control my pleasure, and I also control theirs. They do not cum unless I tell them to. Because they are mine to use as I please. And I use them to their fullest extent, until we are both spent, sweaty, and satisfied.