Tag: orgasm control

What would you do to drive a sub crazy?

Apologies for the belated reply. It depends on the guy and their specific kinks/fetishes. But obviously the easiest and funnest is through tease and denial: pleasing them, edging them, controlling them. I give them a taste of what they want, and then take it away; let them know that it’s there, dangle it in front of their faces, but don’t let them have it; even when I’m pleasing them, I taunt them, reminding them that I control their pleasure, and I can just as easily take it away or punish them. There are few things more frustrating than simply not being able to have something tangibly within one’s grasps.

And to make it even better (or worse, depending on your perspective), I take my time, slowly building up to pleasing them. I toy with them, teasing them with kisses and caresses, leaving their senses on edge and them anxious with anticipation of what’s to come. It is this psychological and physical loss of control and frustration that keeps them begging and subservient. 

Young switch man here if that counts. What do you think would be the longest time you’d forbid a sub to orgasm?

I personally don’t like taking bdsm play outside the bedroom, so the longest I would deny a sub would be the duration of the session/scene, or however long I have them for ;P. I still love watching guys cum, and edging and denial just makes that final release even more satisfying for both of us, so I would never make a guy leave without cumming.

Thanks for the ask! 🙂 

What do you enjoy most doing to a sub?

Apologies for the late reply; I haven’t really had the time recently to properly manage my blog. But thanks for the asks!

I haven’t had that much experience domming yet (where art thou, young submissive men!), but I absolutely love edging, or any other form of orgasm control. The way they squirm and moan, the way their breath quickens and their legs shake… Whether I’m top, bottom, or domme, we both know that I am still in control of their pleasure, so I please them, over and over again, tormenting them with pleasure until they are begging and breathless, but never allowing release unless I command it. And few things are more satisfying to either of us than when I finally allow them to cum. The sheer intensity of their pleasure in that moment – their thick cum gushing out of their throbbing cock, as they gasp and moan – is a reward for their performance, and almost equally orgasmic for me to experience with them.