Tag: kink

What would you do to drive a sub crazy?

Apologies for the belated reply. It depends on the guy and their specific kinks/fetishes. But obviously the easiest and funnest is through tease and denial: pleasing them, edging them, controlling them. I give them a taste of what they want, and then take it away; let them know that it’s there, dangle it in front of their faces, but don’t let them have it; even when I’m pleasing them, I taunt them, reminding them that I control their pleasure, and I can just as easily take it away or punish them. There are few things more frustrating than simply not being able to have something tangibly within one’s grasps.

And to make it even better (or worse, depending on your perspective), I take my time, slowly building up to pleasing them. I toy with them, teasing them with kisses and caresses, leaving their senses on edge and them anxious with anticipation of what’s to come. It is this psychological and physical loss of control and frustration that keeps them begging and subservient. 

Do you like to tease guys?

What kind of question is this?

FUCK YES of course I like to tease guys.

I like to let them see me dance, see me move, to give them an idea of what my body can do. I like to touch them in all the right places, gently when needed, firmly when necessary, enough to get them excited and drive their imagination wild, but not enough for them to really get off on. I like to use their bodies in any way that I please for my pleasure, all whilst denying them any real release. 

I like to tease them until they are panting from pleasure, quivering with frustration, pleading for more, begging for release… To reduce them to nothing but their primal, carnal needs and desires is one of the best things about being a domme. 

How much experience as sub do you have and how would you estimate your dom/sub ratio?

I haven’t yet had any proper experiences as a sub, although with vanilla partners, wherein neither of us are dom(me) or sub, I tend to bottom, although this may be simply be because I am quite petite, pretty unfit, and a sometimes a little bit lazy – it’s always easier to let the guy do the heavy lifting 😂. I do like to be physically ‘dominated’ and manhandled, and love being on both the giving and receiving ends of rough, primal sex, but beyond that, I’m not naturally particularly submissive at all. This is why I identify as a dominant bottom. I would be willing to try it with the right partner, however. 

So I would estimate by domme/sub ratio to be probably ~ 80:20. My top/bottom ration would be closer to ~ 40:60. Thanks for the ask 😊

Do you enjoy hummilating your sub? If so how do you prefer to humilate them?

I’m personality not too much into humiliation, although I wouldn’t mind doing it if a sub specifically requested it. The furthest I’d usually go is sexual objectification, referring to them as my sex slave or slut. I’m more about positive reinforcement, pampering them telling them they’re a good boy or a good slave. I like to see and treat my partners, whether they are submissive or not, as equal and not lesser than me, both inside and outside the bedroom, even though we may play with a domme/sub dynamic.

Thanks for the ask 😊