Carnavalesque

aerospace-agenda:

Some things to make clear;

Not experiencing romantic attraction or love is not the same thing as “not caring”. 

Not experiencing romantic attraction or love is not the same thing as “lacking empathy”, with a corollary that having no, or low, empathy, is not a bad thing.

Sexual relationships do not require romantic elements in order to be valid, meaningful, or important to you.

A sexual relationship not having romantic elements does not mean it is abusive, and, similarly, romantic elements do not necessarily make a relationship non-abusive.

Aromantic people are not necessarily even interested in sexual relationships, long or short term, regardless of whether they are allosexual. 

It’s possible to have long-lasting intimate sexual relationships with people without it being romantic.

Intimacy and romance are not the same thing.

mommymaxie:

Have we talked about desperate doms? No? Then let’s do that
because oh my gosh yes. Wanting your sub’s attention and nothing better than to
rub up against them, wanting to smother them in kisses and drag them into your
lap. Pouncing on your sub the second they’re through the door and telling them
just what you’ll do to them while sucking marks into their necks.

Shoving your sub down on the bed and crawling over them, nuzzling
against their neck and asking them if they’d like to play, please darling can
we? Moaning when they say yes or whining when they tease you because they love
having your attention too. They love when you beg and they love when you offer
whatever they’d like. More kisses? What about touches? As many orgasms as they’d
like?

It doesn’t matter to you so long as you get them, to have
them splayed out or straddling you, to have them riding you or fucking you. You
just want them and you don’t really care what you have to do to get them.