shortsubmissivenerd:

the–preacher:

You want to know what I’m going to do to you?

I’m going to force you to go to sleep at a reasonable time. Hit you with sensible adjustments to your diet. Smash that self loathing into a million pieces. Break those self destructive habits. Im going to care for you more deeply than anyone looking from the outside can fathom possible.

Because, even though its not going to set Tumblr ablaze with titillation, it is what being in charge involves 90% of the time.

Treasure those that put themselves in your hands and you will both get so much more from the dynamic.

Both sides need to do this. Doms can be just as self-destructive as a sub can and subs need to be able to recognize this. BDSM is not a one way street. Care for your doms too, guys and gals and nb pals. They put all of themselves into you to make sure you have a good time and to make you a better person, they deserve the same effort from you.