It’s important understand and remember that you have value and should not be with a domme who doesn’t appreciate you.
If she keeps trying to push you into things you’re not comfortable with, leave her. If she makes you feel insecure about things you’re sensitive about, leave her. If she ghosts you without explanation, leave her.
You shouldn’t put up with someone who doesn’t value you. You’re better off being single and looking for domme who will.