girlsrule-subsdrool:

wynterwolf:

girlsrule-subsdrool:

Pro-tip for new Dom/Dommes – you don’t have to be psychic! You can just ask!
Ask what they like,
ask what they don’t,
ask what porn they like,
ask what makes their cock hard/vag wet,
ask if they find any of your fetishes boring or a limit,
ask their dirtiest fantasies they’ve never told,
ask if they want bedroom only, total 24/7, or somewhere in between,
ask if they’d rather orgasm or be denied (don’t assume!),
ask where they like to be touched,
ask how they would want a dream scene to go (you can choose when or if it happens),
Etc.

And subs: speak up! It isn’t “topping from the bottom”, it’s being a good sub to provide information that your D-type can use to exert control and to have more fun.

This woman is truly amazing and pretty much all tips she gives, 10/10.

Ugh just realized I posted it and cropped off too much of the most important text! Here’s the right one

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